This is something that I posted a few months ago in our FREE Healthy Living Challenge group but wanted to share it here as well. Honestly, this is just a few rants from me. 🙂
As we’ve mentioned many times previously, what works for one person might not work for you. What works for you this year might not work for you next year. Our bodies are always changing and we need to be flexible and learn to listen to our bodies. For example, some people might feel better with higher carbs and less fat and some people might feel better with lower carbs and higher fat. One isn’t better than the other and one isn’t “wrong”! Maybe your best friend did lose 20 pounds by cutting out carbs and instead started eating coconut oil, peanut butter, and bacon with each meal but if you tried the same thing you would end up eating an entire jar of peanut butter instead of one tablespoon. What do you think would be better? That you continue to eat a balanced diet, even if it is more carbs than her, or try to force yourself to eat the same way she does, knowing that you will over-indulge in those foods? Being healthy and fit is NOT one size fits all. You have to take the time to find out what works for you (be patient, this can be a long process!).
I also see way too often that people get hung up on “being perfect” or “being holistic” that they just give up and don’t do anything. How does that make sense? You wanted to be perfect and/or holistic but you couldn’t so you just gave up? Make small changes that add up over time to a HEALTHY lifestyle change…notice I didn’t say perfect. As we mentioned in our Getting Started with Clean Eating post, we changed everything “overnight” but if you can’t do that – that’s okay! Just get started!
Keep in mind that you will be able to find anything you want online…on both sides of everything. Every day something new will kill you if you eat it – according to someone. YOU must find balance and find what works for YOU. This takes TIME. If it sounds good to be true it probably is. Only eat bananas all day, no fats, no carbs, only eat grapefruit, no protein? Seriously?! Just eat a balanced diet of HEALTHY food and LIVE YOUR LIFE.Don’t get so hung up on every single detail. The details will ultimately drive you crazy.
Am I as lean as I once was? Nope. My priorities have changed – I now spend more time coaching others and I’m being pulled in a million different directions all the time. Is this an excuse? Not in my mind because I’m still in the gym 4-6 days a week and I still eat healthy and I AM STILL HEALTHY. Being lean doesn’t equal being healthy. It takes A LOT of focus, time, and energy to be super lean. Honestly, I think the reason I’ve been successful is because I’ve been on this “fitness journey” for almost 4 years now and I’ve never tried to get a “bikini body”. I did do a photo shoot but that wasn’t my main motivator, I just wanted a healthy lifestyle – one where I could travel and hike and do all the things I love to the best of my ability. I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with a “bikini body” or whatever your goal is but there HAS TO BE SOMETHING MORE! There has to be something else driving you. What happens after you work for 3 months just to walk around in a bikini during the summer? What happens in the fall? You just go back to your old habits until March rolls around again? Is this the position you are in right now?1